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All The While...

 Good day lovies! It’s a fine time to be alive and aware; all the while being/becoming your true self. Harnessing your energy from within; all the while releasing what does not work in your favor or for your psyche.  Trust your intuition! Understand that statement fully. Read it again. It’s sometimes easy to write and sometimes it’s not. The words stammer in my head fishing for a line out. Times like these I have to remember that the answers don’t always come thru the same channel. All the while, though, the answer is right there. I have to do something (different) to bring it about.  The point of this entry is to realize that your true self is looking for acceptance from you (your own universe). There are examples of people, places or things you may want to imitate, but all the while true self lies within and has been there the entire time.  Let’s learn to embrace what’s been here within us the entire time. Learn to grow and nurture self all the while become a bette...

I Am Exceptional

Good day lovies! I hope this day finds you exceptional. In all that you do, say, think and become; be exceptional. It's a wonderful feeling to have and to live. I do know that everyday may not be exceptional and by all means you may not feel that way.  For this moment, while reading this post, think of yourself as exceptional. Feel it in your spirit and your diving timing.  It is an honor and a pleasure to write this post. As I write I began to read my words - be exceptional. I am not in competition with anyone; I am excepting myself as I am and knowing that I am exceptional. It is ok; honestly it is.  A simple truth about your exceptional self. Think on this today: I am exceptional. Say it 108 times out loud, silently or write it out (or do all of them).  Believe it with your heart, soul, mind, spirit and body. A change will come, trust it.  And today, make it an exceptional one for you and for your well being.  Love you to life family. Take care.  In...

When Motionless Means Something

 Good afternoon Lovies!  I am finding myself more and more motionless these days. I don’t mean sedentary lifestyle, I mean that I’m not doing the things I used to do. I am becoming more aware of my surroundings and myself; sometimes this renders me motionless. I am coming to realize that I don’t always have to  Jump in to help out (others in need)  Be the line on standby Internalize and keep the opinions of others  Be unbecoming of my true self  I have allowed so much unnecessary energy into my lifestyle, it has rendered me motionless. That means something; change is needed. Change to release what I am not and accept me for who and what I am.  My inner person is screaming at me to do something different with myself. I have had the task of “doing” for others in all areas that I have rendered myself motionless to growing, launching, becoming and living my purpose led life. It’s sometimes easier to write it down and forget about it than to truly believe a...

In loving memory

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 ...Just me with thoughts and existence  Dear family,  I have not written a post in a while. To bring you up to speed, my mom passed on 03/07/2019 and I have been in fog since then. Last month is when I truly woke out of my stupor. Its debilitating and frustrating when you are unable to function like normal.  Even in these times, what is normal? That is one of the questions I deal with on a daily basis. I am normally a positive person, but when I  have a soul cry and remain in that place/space/time...it does something to my psyche.  My psyche is different. I am different.  Nothing is the same or remains as it used to be. We all have painful growth (or stagnant) moments of a place or space we have not ever imagined.  The " this day will come " (whatever the case maybe) type of event/moment is now here. Nothing can prepare you for it. Nothing can walk you thru it. Nothing and no one can take away the pain that brews inside you.  This is my trut...

In the thick of it; deep breath

 Greetings Sunshines and Lovies!  A beautiful day to start taking deep breaths, stretching and analyzing your life. I’m in the thick of it now. Lots of things have happened in a very short period of time; I’m taking it all in. Deep breath.  How do you feel when you are in the thick of it? What does that mean to you? What are you going to do about it? Take a moment and think on those questions. Don’t react. Think. Deep breath. Take your time with this. As I write this, I’m speaking to myself as well. Deep breath and remember to breathe.  Enjoy everyday you can. Work on what you can change in your life and remember to breathe. It will work out, it will.  Wonderful day and take care, Phenompiccoli 

2021 Year Of Openings

  2021  2021  2021  2021  2021  2021  2021  2021 Hi Family! How are you doing? It HAS been a while since I have been here. Where do we begin? First, let me start by saying congratulations on making it to this point. All trials and tribulations are still coming forth, but let's celebrate the NOW just because. Acknowledge those things that matter. You matter. Let us start there.  Secondly a new day is dawning for the year ahead. I am not going to ask questions like: what are your plans for the new year? I am going to ask: what will you become in 2021? This is the year of openings; plan accordingly.  Lastly, be mindful of all that you do. Your footprint will last thru lifetimes. You have an effect on people in a positive light. Use that power to make a difference and change in the world; it is needed. All sorts of people are in the world; you are the unique one of it.  Blessings everyday of this year! 

YOUR (your own universe reveals) PERCEPTION

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PERCEPTION Good morning Sunshine!   Perception. A key word used to decipher or give meaning/definition/understanding to some sort of object (sometimes) of/in present or future tense. How do you perceive yourself? What do you perceive the outcome will be? Those types of questions give insight to the full meaning of perception. To piggyback on that which was stated above, what is your perception? How do your views stand up to world views? Again, how do you perceive yourself? You can internalize the word and make it work to benefit you (your own universe). Examine everything. The good. The bad. The ugly. The indifferent. The straddle the fence syndrome. Everything! Take ownership of it and make the necessary changes so that your perception of skewed views become clear and those that are clear become definite. Take into account everything that has happened over time and allow your view or your perception to become clear. I perceive this to be a wonderful moment in time and an ...